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Below, we have left our original Great Expectations review for your continued reading.This review received its last major update during the month of March 2014.

If you were interested in this type of dating service you may want to check out our Matchmaking services category to find other similar sites.Online dating has obviously been quite popular for some time now, but it appears that one company may have overstepped its legal bounds -- though, it's unclear why those legal bounds are there in the first place.The company, Great Expectations, apparently set expectations a little too high.I sort of came upon the subject accidentally, after I was assigned a story at magazine about the problems with “positive psychology,” a burgeoning new discipline on college campuses that, in the crudest sense, is the study of what makes people happy, though positive psychologists don’t like it when you describe it that way. I like the work of the psychiatrist and researcher George Vaillant. Eating a Snickers bar gives you pleasure, and so does an orgasm. They make you “happy,” at least for a short while, in an ephemeral sense. In his book he writes, “Joy is connection.” It can be a connection to another person; it can be a connection to God.Anyway, I discovered lots of interesting facts: Religious people are happier than nonreligious. (Of course, you have to ask if this is cause or effect — maybe happy people are more likely to get married.) Then I read the Harvard social psychologist Daniel Gilbert’s . I’d just started dating my husband, and I really wanted a kid. This is a very clarifying concept: that pleasure is really focused inward and joy is focused outward. You might feel nachas when your kid gets into Harvard, but you’d feel it even more so, I think, if your kid stood up to a bully, or for a principle, or did a good deed. If your kid gets into Harvard, sure, it’s worth celebrating — but if your kid is the one who tells the asshole to stop picking on the gay kid, you’ve done something even more right. Kahneman describes the experiencing self as the person who moves through the world in real time.

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